This might interest peeps suffering from 3DDisorder: https://iwantclips.com/home
Site which has a bunch of clips with our vague intersection of femdom, mind control, lipstick and kissing in them if you browse the Kissing category. There's also the possibility of custom clips if you have too much dough in your life, and I think you can actually make that work pretty well if you choose some of more gothic models and making them roleplay a succubus or the like.